Donald Teuma-Castelletti
SHAWVILLE Nov. 3, 2018
Families had the opportunity to take part in a different style of learning on Saturday, as Connexions Resource Centre brought in a theatre troupe to teach about the difficulties caregivers face everyday.
As part of the Provincial Caregiver Week, Théâtre La Belle Gang brought their performance of Losing Control to Pontiac High School’s auditorium, where guests could enjoy the play while also coming to understand what it’s like to care for a loved one in need of great assistance.
The play focused on the story of Tom and Julie, a couple in their mid-60s who have raised their children, held established careers and are looking into the next chapter. The only hitch is that Tom has Alzheimer’s, putting great strain on even his longest relationships.
The play uses this premise to touch on many aspects of being a caregiver, from a variety of perspectives. It deals with guilt, empathy, sympathy, anger, sadness and even the happy times that come with it, as seen by best friends, brothers, spouses, and children.
Following the performance, actress Susan Sioui came forward to speak with the crowd about their own experience as a caregiver for a loved one.
“We’re trying to get a message out to people, that you’re not alone,” said Sioui, adding there is support for caregivers, too.
She explained that caregivers often feel neglected and worn out, but don’t know about resources available to them.
She also praised Connexions for their services in the Pontiac, highlighting the Pontiac Caring Community Initiative. This program offers caregivers in the Pontiac a chance to relieve their physical and mental well-being with support to access services, English documentation, workshops and a stronger support network.
This program relies on the volunteer effort of community driven individuals, known as “beacons,” who provide caregivers with the necessary support, education and tools for them to continue to do so comfortably.
Connexions Executive Director Danielle Lanyi said the play was an excellent way to portray not only the feelings caregivers go through, but also what the victims often feel, too. She hoped the audience took away that it’s not about dealing with the issue if it arises, but that it’s all-around better to be prepared in the case of an illness in need of a caregiver.
“By raising awareness, we’re getting people to ask for help sooner rather than later,” said Lanyi.
